Blame Less and be Blameless

Links for today’s readings:

Read: Ezekiel 18 Listen: (5:26)

Read: Colossians 1 Listen: (4:18)

This Weekend’s readings:

Read: Ezekiel 19 Listen: (2:12), Read: Colossians 2 Listen: (3:27)

Read: Ezekiel 20 Listen: (9:25), Read: Colossians 3 Listen: (3:09)

Scripture Focus: Ezekiel 18.2-3, 19-23

2 “What do you people mean by quoting this proverb about the land of Israel:

“‘The parents eat sour grapes,

and the children’s teeth are set on edge’?

3 “As surely as I live, declares the Sovereign Lord, you will no longer quote this proverb in Israel.

19 “Yet you ask, ‘Why does the son not share the guilt of his father?’ Since the son has done what is just and right and has been careful to keep all my decrees, he will surely live. 20 The one who sins is the one who will die. The child will not share the guilt of the parent, nor will the parent share the guilt of the child. The righteousness of the righteous will be credited to them, and the wickedness of the wicked will be charged against them. 21 “But if a wicked person turns away from all the sins they have committed and keeps all my decrees and does what is just and right, that person will surely live; they will not die. 22 None of the offenses they have committed will be remembered against them. Because of the righteous things they have done, they will live. 23 Do I take any pleasure in the death of the wicked? declares the Sovereign Lord. Rather, am I not pleased when they turn from their ways and live?

Reflection: Blame Less and be Blameless

By John Tillman

Ezekiel’s generation of exiles blamed the generations before. Haven’t we all? Generational finger-pointing is common.

Their complaint reminds me of the opening line of Mike + The Mechanics’ 1988 mega-hit, “The Living Years,” “Every generation blames the one before. And all of their frustrations come beating at your door.”

The exiles beat on God’s door, quoting an “old song”: “The parents have eaten sour grapes, and the children’s teeth are set on edge.” This saying or “proverb” is in scripture twice but is not “scripture.” In both places it appears, in Ezekiel 18.1-3 and in Jeremiah 31.29-30, it is quoted to be refuted.

In refuting the proverb, God does not deny the grim realities and results of parents’ sins or how this affects children. God also rebuked those quoting the proverb. Ezekiel’s generation was deflecting blame and denying responsibility, and God was having none of it.

The quote has some truth to it. The old covenant explicitly stated that God would punish younger generations for their parents’ sins, but promised a longer generational blessing for righteousness than a curse for wickedness. (Exodus 20.4-6)

Parents can harm their children with what they do or what they believe. Generational curses were a common religious belief in the ancient Near East and many other cultures. Today we have a secular belief in generational curses such as poverty, violence, addictions, lack of education, and physical, emotional, or sexual abuse.

Instead of denying that one generation’s failures can harm another, God was and is saying, “My way will be different. This is not how I will deal with you.” God promises, and delivers, a new covenant in which every generational curse can be broken.

There is no generation completely free of blame. We benefit from and perpetuate the sins of our parents and pass on sins and errors to the next generation.  God says, “Stop blaming your parents and deal with me honestly.”

Don’t curse a generation before you for their failings or curse a generation following you with yours. The only son who ever rejected all the sins of the generations before, is Jesus, the sinless son. (Ezekiel 18.14-17) Each generation, and each individual, stands or falls by how we deal with Jesus.

Jesus, the blameless son, suffered the blame and sin of all generations to make us blameless and free us from sins’ curse. Blame less and rely on the blameless one, Jesus.

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The Thriving Tree

Links for today’s readings:

Read: Ezekiel 17 Listen: (4:26)
Read: Philippians 4 Listen: (3:20)

Scripture Focus: Ezekiel 17.22-24

22 “ ‘This is what the Sovereign LORD says: I myself will take a shoot from the very top of a cedar and plant it; I will break off a tender sprig from its topmost shoots and plant it on a high and lofty mountain. 23 On the mountain heights of Israel I will plant it; it will produce branches and bear fruit and become a splendid cedar. Birds of every kind will nest in it; they will find shelter in the shade of its branches. 24 All the trees of the forest will know that I the LORD bring down the tall tree and make the low tree grow tall. I dry up the green tree and make the dry tree flourish.

“ ‘I the LORD have spoken, and I will do it.’ ”

Reflection: The Thriving Tree

By John Tillman

Biblical authors don’t always explain their visions and parables. Thankfully, Ezekiel explains his visions of trees and eagles.

Nebuchadnezzar, the first eagle, took King Jehoiachin and others into captivity (2 Kings 24.15) and “planted” Zedekiah under Babylonian control. Pharaoh, the second eagle, is who Zedekiah, the “low vine,” entreats for help rebelling against Nebuchadnezzar. “Will it thrive?,” God asks. (Ezekiel 17.9)

Many kings, humbled and seeking God’s face, received miraculous deliverance from their enemies. This was not one of those times. Zedekiah was the opposite of humble.

Refusing to humble himself under the discipline of God, (2 Chronicles 36.12-13) Zedekiah would not accept a reduction in status. He wanted to be a mighty cedar, not a low vine. He wanted the “good old days” back.

Zedekiah didn’t make his bad decisions alone. A host of religious leaders and yes-men helped. Self-serving false prophets fed Zedekiah’s ego and pride with lies and predictions of great deliverance and salvation.

It doesn’t take too much conjecture to imagine what Zedekiah might have felt and thought. “I’m a descendant of David! God promised to have one of David’s descendants rule forever on this throne. It just can’t be God’s will for me,…I mean…us, to be humiliated like this!”

Don’t we often look at scripture and our experiences in the same way? “This can’t be what God wants for me! I won’t stand for this kind of treatment! I deserve better! God will vindicate me in this fight!”

Zedekiah’s selfish desires for salvation and a return to power would not be answered because God had already set in motion his long-term plan to save and empower his people. Part of God’s plan to save them was to purify their hearts through exile and suffering. Part of God’s plan to save them was to enact a second Exodus, calling the faithful of his people back from captivity once again.

But God’s ultimate plan was in the tree, the king, only he could plant. (Ezekiel 17.22-25, Jeremiah 23.5-6)

Zedekiah, the king planted by Nebuchadnezzar would fail. Even Nebuchadnezzar would fail in spectacular fashion. Jesus, the king planted by God upon Zion, is the tree that will thrive, bringing all the birds to his shade.

Our path to salvation and restoration follows the steps of the suffering, crucified servant, Jesus. It is only in the shade of Christ’s thriving tree, his cross, that we will thrive.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Refrain for the Morning Lessons

Let not those who hope in you be put to shame through me, Lord God of hosts; let not those who seek you be disgraced because of me, O God of Israel. — Psalm 69.7

– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Autumn and Wintertime by Phyllis Tickle.

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Atypical Prostitute

Links for today’s readings:

Read: Ezekiel 16 Listen: (10:36)

Read: Philippians 3 Listen: (3:21)

Scripture Focus: Ezekiel 16:15, 47

15 “‘But you trusted in your beauty and used your fame to become a prostitute. You lavished your favors on anyone who passed by and your beauty became his.

47 You not only followed their ways and copied their detestable practices, but in all your ways you soon became more depraved than they.

Reflection: Atypical Prostitute

By Erin Newton

Ezekiel 16 should come with a content warning. The graphic description of Jerusalem (both men and women) is described in a vulgar display of childbirth, shameless prostitution, and sexual violence. It is one of the most difficult passages to read, especially for sensitive readers who know the reality of such trauma or sympathize with those who do.

The language is jarring and upsetting. The image of the violence against the woman is not an action that is condoned, but the shock value of the image is likely the key to understanding why Ezekiel would talk about God’s people this way.

God’s people were once orphaned and rooted in a family tree of idolaters. It wasn’t Jerusalem’s excellent heritage that bonded her with God. It was God’s own love that chose her, in her loneliness, in her unworthiness, in her rejection by her own family.

She was clothed in honor and dignity. Her fame spread among the nations on account of her beauty—beauty given by God. All that was good of God’s people was because it reflected God himself. They were like radiant faces of those who had seen the Lord on the mountain.

But she was swayed in her devotion. Political alliances were made, spoken of here as sexual relationships with any passersby. She was not even a typical prostitute; she gave all that she had. She received nothing.

From history we know of these alliances with foreign nations. In most cases, they were attempts to find security in foreign power. They were made against the advice of prophets and always ended in disaster.

This harsh image is meant to awaken slumbering souls that had long forgotten the sound of God’s voice and only looked for new lovers. They traded their dignity for false security in someone else’s arms.

Have we grown in spiritual maturity so as not to act in this way? I’m not sure we are so different.

Like the metaphorical woman, Jerusalem, we were left to die, unloved and unwanted, before God clothed us with his love. But many times, we are quick to pledge our devotion to someone other than him, and these lovers only take and take with nothing to give in return. Let us not be swayed by anyone claiming to save us apart from God alone. He has promised to stand with us forever. May we commit our hearts only to him.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Cry of the Church

Lord, have mercy on us. Christ, have mercy on us. Lord, have mercy on us.

– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Autumn and Wintertime by Phyllis Tickle.

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Beyond Utility

Links for today’s readings:

Read: Ezekiel 15 Listen: (1:09)

Read: Philippians 2 Listen: (3:45)

Scripture Focus: Ezekiel 15.1-8

15 The word of the Lord came to me: 2 “Son of man, how is the wood of a vine different from that of a branch from any of the trees in the forest? 3 Is wood ever taken from it to make anything useful? Do they make pegs from it to hang things on? 4 And after it is thrown on the fire as fuel and the fire burns both ends and chars the middle, is it then useful for anything? 5 If it was not useful for anything when it was whole, how much less can it be made into something useful when the fire has burned it and it is charred? 6 “Therefore this is what the Sovereign Lord says: As I have given the wood of the vine among the trees of the forest as fuel for the fire, so will I treat the people living in Jerusalem. 7 I will set my face against them. Although they have come out of the fire, the fire will yet consume them. And when I set my face against them, you will know that I am the Lord. 8 I will make the land desolate because they have been unfaithful, declares the Sovereign Lord.”

Reflection: Beyond Utility

By John Tillman

God frequently called Israel a vine.

Usually, this is a beautiful metaphor. God the agriculturalist, tenderly cultivates the vines and harvests the fruit. But here, God uses a building metaphor. God points out that the flexible, soft wood of a vine can’t even make a peg in a wall to hold something up. It is useful only as fuel for the fire.

“What use is my vine?” God asks.

The question hangs ominously unanswered within the eight verses of this short chapter… It seems hopeless. It implies there is no use—no redeeming purpose.

But there is a deeper layer. In the larger narrative of Ezekiel and the rest of the Bible, God uses the unusable and redeems the unredeemable. Despite Israel’s failure, God revealed through Ezekiel that restoration was coming. The exiled would return. The discarded would be treasured. The useless would be repurposed.

The vine of Israel failed but Jesus is the true vine that is useful, productive, and faithful to God. The disciples preached, cast out demons, and healed the sick. (Mark 3.13-15) How? He was the vine, they were the branches.

I remember hearing Rich Mullins point out that Mark 3.13 says Jesus called to himself “those he wanted” not needed. It could be argued that the only disciple Jesus needed was Judas to betray him. If Jesus didn’t need the disciples, why call them? We could ask the same about ourselves.

We may, with very good intentions, desire to be “useful” to God. There may be many things that we do for God’s kingdom. But no matter what tasks we might tackle, God calls us to himself not a task.

God loves you, not your utility.

God is interested in you, not your résumé.

God wants you, not your talents. (He gave them to you anyway.)

God calls you because he wants you, not what you can do.

This is good news for the exiled, the weak, the hurt, the hopeless, and those who know the sting of failure.

You don’t need to be useful to be loved by God. No matter how weak or burned your wood is…no matter how hopeless it seems…you can be restored as part of Christ’s beautiful vine. God wants you grafted into the vine of Jesus.

Be nourished from and held by Jesus, the vine. Your fruitfulness and faithfulness depend on your connection to him.


Music:Hold Me Jesus,” Rich Mullins.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Greeting

I put my trust in your mercy; my heart is joyful because of your saving help. — Psalm 13.5

– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Autumn and Wintertime by Phyllis Tickle.

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Scrupulosity of the Spirit

Links for today’s readings:

Read: Ezekiel 14 Listen: (4:09)

Read: Philippians 1 Listen: (4:03)

Scripture Focus: Ezekiel 14.1-5

1 Some of the elders of Israel came to me and sat down in front of me. 2 Then the word of the Lord came to me: 3 “Son of man, these men have set up idols in their hearts and put wicked stumbling blocks before their faces. Should I let them inquire of me at all? 4 Therefore speak to them and tell them, ‘This is what the Sovereign Lord says: When any of the Israelites set up idols in their hearts and put a wicked stumbling block before their faces and then go to a prophet, I the Lord will answer them myself in keeping with their great idolatry. 5 I will do this to recapture the hearts of the people of Israel, who have all deserted me for their idols.’

Reflection: Scrupulosity of the Spirit

By John Tillman

The elders appeared before Ezekiel with something they thought was a secret—idols in their hearts and wicked stumbling blocks before their faces.

These exiled elders may not have had physical idols in the temple (as in Ezekiel’s previous vision) but they had them in their hearts.

Do we appear before God in this way? Do we trust God but keep our idols? Do we seek God’s truth or do we have “stumbling blocks” before our faces? Do we stumble trying to justify a policy, a position, a sin? Do we stumble looking for biblical backup for what we already worship?

Recently, Russell Moore discussed the term “moral scrupulosity” with Alan Noble. Moral scrupulosity describes a form of obsessive-compulsive disorder in our spiritual lives. A person suffering from OCD may compulsively wash their hands over and over, even when there is no sign of them becoming contaminated or dirty. A person with moral scrupulosity may compulsively obsess over whether they have really confessed and repented enough for God to forgive them even when there is no sign of sinful actions or thought patterns.

Having written recently about “secret idolatry” and “stumbling blocks” in our hearts, I want to be careful not to send anyone into a spiral of moral scrupulosity. Neither do I want to inspire people to use freedom to enable sin or to shrug and say, “God will forgive me,” while making no effort to obey.

God’s answer to those who seek him with idols and stumbling blocks sounds harsh but there is grace in it. The purpose of his harsh answer is to win back our hearts. He reveals our inner idols so that we can repent. He wants us to come back to him free of our idols. God wants more than to forgive us of sin. He wants to free us from its grip.

So examine yourself, inside and out, with sober judgment. Ask that your idols be revealed.  Trust the scrupulosity of the Holy Spirit, not your heart’s obsessions. Deal with what is revealed and joyfully return to the Lord.

Do not give yourself excuses. But do not excuse yourself from God’s grace.

Renounce prideful self-sufficiency. But do not embrace incapacitating self-doubt.

Humble yourself. But do not spiral into self-loathing.

Confess sin. But avoid obsessive self-flagellation.

God’s mercy should set us free, not bind us.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Small Verse

Open, Lord, my eyes that I may see.

Open, Lord, my ears that I may hear.

Open, Lord, my heart and my mind that I may understand.

So I shall turn to you and be healed.

– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Autumn and Wintertime by Phyllis Tickle.

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