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Links for today’s readings:

Mar 5  Read: Proverbs 24 Listen: (3:47) Read: Mark 14 Listen: (8:37)

Scripture Focus: Proverbs 24.23-29

Reflection: Kiss of Honesty or Deceit?

By John Tillman

This section of Proverbs highlights the connection between justice and honesty and their opposites, partiality and deception. The central phrase celebrates honesty as an act of respect and love—a kiss on the lips.

The Hebrew translated “honest” means “straight.” Its opposite, the Hebrew for “crooked” is often translated “deceitful.” English has this metaphor too. On important issues, we want “straight” answers from leaders. We usually get deceitful answers—crooked, spin-filled speeches of avoidance.

Answers can be crooked. So can interpretations. Partiality blinds eyes and twists words. (Deuteronomy 16.19) If partial to the speaker, we may call crooked words straight, kissing their mouth with our lips.

In our culture, kissing on the lips occurs primarily in romantic relationships. Even very close platonic friends rarely kiss on the lips, but in biblical times it was a common, nonsexual gesture of affection and respect. The early church greeted each other with holy kisses. (Romans 16.16; 1 Corinthians 16.20; 2 Corinthians 13.12; 1 Thessalonians 5.26) Jesus criticized Simon the Pharisee for neglecting the customary, hospitable greeting of a kiss. (Luke 7.44-47) The slight of not greeting Jesus with a kiss revealed that, at heart, Simon was not judging Jesus impartially. A kiss promised honesty. This also made Judas’s kiss of betrayal all the more “crooked.” (Luke 22.47-48)

Partiality has many flavors. People may judge for the powerful in exchange for favors or for the wealthy in exchange for bribes. Yet, scripture also condemns judging for the poor due to misguided sympathy. Cases must be judged on the merits, not by predetermined partiality against classes, races, or other groups. (Leviticus 19.15; Deuteronomy 1.17; 16.19; 2 Chronicles 19.7)

Wise safeguards attempt to protect against partiality. My relative, who is a judge, has sons who are law enforcement officers. To prevent partiality due to familial ties, he cannot handle cases involving his sons. But if his heart became corrupt and crooked, he could and would find a way to influence the system.

Systems of checks and balances cannot account for all forms of partiality. It is self-deception to think we have or could design such a system. Therefore, it always comes down to the individual integrity, character, and honesty of leaders. Frightening, yes?

The chaos leaders of deficient character bring is God’s judgment on those who support them. Those who say to the guilty, “you are innocent,” deserve the rancor of all nations. (Proverbs 24.24)

Character is the ultimate leadership quality and is a test for us. When we “kiss” leaders with compromised character—honoring them, praising them, promoting them—like Judas, we kiss Jesus with betrayal.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Request for Presence

O God of hosts, show the light of your countenance, and we shall be saved. — Psalm 80.7

– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Springtime by Phyllis Tickle.

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Links for today’s readings:

Mar 4  Read: Proverbs 23 Listen: (3:39) Read: Mark 13 Listen: (4:32)

Scripture Focus: Proverbs 23:4-5

4 Do not wear yourself out to get rich;
    do not trust your own cleverness.
5 Cast but a glance at riches, and they are gone,
    for they will surely sprout wings
    and fly off to the sky like an eagle.

Reflection: The Rat Race

By Erin Newton

When pressed to find a suitable cultural reference for the idea of “wealth isn’t everything,” my mind immediately went to Christmas stories: The Christmas Carol (admittedly, the muppet version) and It’s a Wonderful Life. But looking for a good one-liner, I think of Harry Bailey who says: “A toast to my big brother George, the richest man in town!” George has just had an epiphany about what brings value to life, and his friends and family rallied to keep him from financial destitution.

During a season beset with giving and generosity, such movies keep the “spirit” going. We are reminded that giving is good. But once the new year rolls around, we are back at it—the rat race. The “American Dream” is built on the idea of working hard and building wealth. Of course, many of us are probably not in any sort of space where our savings are increasing. Right now, making ends meet is about as good as it gets.

Struggling to have enough to live is exhausting. It is not hard to identify the various ways our lives would be easier if we had bigger inflow of income. We might read this verse and scoff, “Not my problem!” Who is really prospering right now? Believe me, I get it.

But the drive to try to be wealthy might be something we do struggle with. Wanting to afford things for ourselves and our families is not inherently bad. But if we are single-mindedly trying to gain and gain and gain, we are likely to burn out.

My husband recently said, “What if a little is enough?” He told me about a business model that used a shopping center for local businesses. The spaces were rented out in increments depending on the needs of the entrepreneurs. The idea was to avoid the larger box stores or franchises and keep expenses low. “Just enough for what they need to use.”

Just enough.

Where can we let go of the weary pursuit of building wealth and settle for “just enough”? What can we gain by stepping back?

The proverb says that money is fleeting. Money is easy to spend. Investments can be easily de-valued. Heirlooms can depreciate. Precious jewels can be lost. Our satisfaction is often a moving goalpost.

Jesus came to give us life to the fullest. Don’t waste it yearning for earnings. Know when you have enough and then stop.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Small Verse

Today if you shall hear his voice, harden not your heart.

– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Springtime by Phyllis Tickle.

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Links for today’s readings:

Mar 3  Read: Proverbs 22 Listen: (2:59) Read: Mark 12 Listen: (6:10)

Scripture Focus: Proverbs 22.1-2, 4, 7-9, 16

Rich man’s war, poor man’s fight. — unknown (Civil War era, 1861-1865)

From John: Today, as always, our devotional writings are steered by the scriptures for the day, not the headlines of the day. We originally posted this devotional on March 3, 2022, one week after Russia’s invasion of Ukraine on February 24, 2022. I decided last week that we would repost this devotional today, and reflect that four years later, the Center for Strategic and International Studies (CSIS) estimates that up to 325,000 Russian soldiers and up to 140,000 Ukrainian soldiers have died in Russia’s invasion.

Then, over the weekend, the US and Israel opened a new conflict with attacks on Iran and the President cautioned Americans that US military personnel may die in this action or as a result. By the time this posts on Tuesday, perhaps the attacks will be over. Perhaps a “Mission Accomplished” banner will be raised as George W. Bush did long before the Iraq war accomplished anything lasting. However, Russia’s experiences in Ukraine and America’s own experiences in regime change should caution us that we cannot know the future consequences of this action. We can know, however, that poor Iranians, Americans, and Israelis will bear the brunt of the suffering, dying, and fighting as the wealthy and powerful pontificate and moralize. As President Jimmy Carter wisely reminded us, “War may sometimes be a necessary evil. But no matter how necessary, it is always an evil, never a good.”

May we redouble our prayers against the evils of war. Pray the innocent will be protected. Pray that the plans of the powerful will be frustrated. Pray the wicked will be destroyed by their own wicked ways.

Reflection: Prayer for the Poor at War

By John Tillman

Today’s section of Proverbs has many reflections on the relationship of the rich to the poor.

During the American Civil War, men could avoid conscription into the military for a fee of $300. That would be approximately $9,500 in today’s currency. The adage “rich man’s war, poor man’s fight” originated at this time. This “proverb” has remained a popular way of expressing the fact that most nations are led to war by the rich and most who die are poor. 

United States military forces have been volunteer-only since 1973 but conscription (called the draft) could be reactivated if national security demanded it. Despite being a volunteer force, the US Armed Forces are still mostly filled by those from lower economic backgrounds, so the adage is still true.

In other nations, practices vary, but it has become clear in the early days of the Russian invasion of Ukraine that many captured Russian soldiers are conscripts and some of them were unaware of where they were being sent and who they were being told to attack. 

Poor men dying on behalf of the powerful is the way of the world. The way of Christ is the opposite.

Christ was the wealthiest but became the poorest. He was the most powerful but became the weakest. Rather than allow us to be casualties of sin and death, God, in Christ, leapt in front of the bullets and died in our place. Yet, through God’s power he won the war with sin and death, conquering them through the cross and shaming them through his bodily resurrection. Thank God that in the war against sin and death, it is God who fights for us.

Prayer for the Poor at War

Lord, we pray for the poor at war and for the powerful who send them to it.
Whether the military conscript or the mother huddled in a bomb shelter, we pray for you to touch the poor and weak to save them.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Morning Psalm

– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Springtime by Phyllis Tickle.

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