Abishai or Abigail?

Links for today’s readings:

Read: 1 Samuel  26 Listen: (4:30) Read: Revelation 6 Listen: (3:12)

Scripture Focus: 1 Samuel 26.7-8

7 So David and Abishai went to the army by night, and there was Saul, lying asleep inside the camp with his spear stuck in the ground near his head. Abner and the soldiers were lying around him. 8 Abishai said to David, “Today God has delivered your enemy into your hands. Now let me pin him to the ground with one thrust of the spear; I won’t strike him twice.”

1 Samuel 25.29, 31

29 Even though someone is pursuing you to take your life, the life of my lord will be bound securely in the bundle of the living by the Lord your God, but the lives of your enemies he will hurl away as from the pocket of a sling….31 my lord will not have on his conscience the staggering burden of needless bloodshed or of having avenged himself…

Reflection: Abishai or Abigail?

By John Tillman

The incursion began at night. Using stealth, the heroes sneaked past guards, through the arrangement of tents and military equipment. They reached the highly guarded target. The moment to strike came…but the purpose of the mission was a surprise. It was not the assassination plot it first seemed. The leader had another purpose.

Incursions into enemy territory are high-risk military missions with defined and often violent goals such as destroying infrastructure or weapons, or capturing or assassinating key individuals. This is what Abishai expected when David asked him to sneak into Saul’s camp.

Saul lay unprotected. Saul’s spear stood, stuck in the ground near his head. The spear’s point was sharp and could have silently cut through Saul’s throat. Instead, David used the spear to make a point that cut Saul to the heart. Saul confessed his sin, called David “son,” and promised not to harm him.

Saul would break this promise, leading to an even closer encounter in which David would once again spare Saul’s life. (1 Samuel 24.4-12) However, David demonstrated something important—he valued the life of his enemy and avoided needless bloodshed. Where did he learn this?

David’s logic seems heavily influenced by Abigail’s masterfully worded speech in the previous chapter. Abigail convinced David not to exact revenge on her husband. Then Nabal died (by God’s hand), and Abigail became David’s wife. (1 Samuel 25.37) Abigail’s influence turned David from a man who would commit mass murder to avenge an insult (1 Samuel 25.21-22) into a man who would risk his own life to avoid needlessly shedding blood, even of his enemy.

Our world is just as (or even more) violent than David’s. Yet, in our day-to-day lives, most of us don’t live as close to violence as David did. We are privileged when our experiences of violence are in our entertainment choices and not in our homes, streets, or countries. However, we still think in violent metaphors and live among those with kill-or-be-killed ethics.

Examine your relationship to violence and the ethics of power. Whose mindset do we have? Abigail’s or Abishai’s? For Abishai, the opportunity to strike indicates God’s approval. For Abigail, refraining from violence is an act of faith and a mark of God’s approval.

How do we want leaders to act? What advice would we give? Pin enemies to the ground and destroy them? Or value their lives and appeal to their common humanity?

Listen to Abigail.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Request for Presence

Look upon your covenant; the dark places of the earth are haunts of violence. — Psalm 74.19

– Divine Hours prayers from The Divine Hours: Prayers for Summer
by Phyllis Tickle

Read more: Our Deliverer — Guided Prayer

We can, in the day of our disaster, rely on God. Our success depends on God, not our own strength or the intervention of an ally.

Read more: Blocking the Way of Wickedness

May we be like Abigail, willing to risk our lives…standing in the way of those intent on harm and violence.

Blocking the Way of Wickedness

Scripture Focus: 1 Samuel 25.17, 24-31
17 Now think it over and see what you can do, because disaster is hanging over our master and his whole household. He is such a wicked man that no one can talk to him.” 

24 …”Pardon your servant, my lord, and let me speak to you; hear what your servant has to say. 25 Please pay no attention, my lord, to that wicked man Nabal. He is just like his name—his name means Fool, and folly goes with him. And as for me, your servant, I did not see the men my lord sent. 26 And now, my lord, as surely as the Lord your God lives and as you live, since the Lord has kept you from bloodshed and from avenging yourself with your own hands, may your enemies and all who are intent on harming my lord be like Nabal. 27 And let this gift, which your servant has brought to my lord, be given to the men who follow you. 
28 “Please forgive your servant’s presumption. The Lord your God will certainly make a lasting dynasty for my lord, because you fight the Lord’s battles, and no wrongdoing will be found in you as long as you live. 29 Even though someone is pursuing you to take your life, the life of my lord will be bound securely in the bundle of the living by the Lord your God, but the lives of your enemies he will hurl away as from the pocket of a sling. 30 When the Lord has fulfilled for my lord every good thing he promised concerning him and has appointed him ruler over Israel, 31 my lord will not have on his conscience the staggering burden of needless bloodshed or of having avenged himself. And when the Lord your God has brought my lord success, remember your servant.”

Reflection: Blocking the Way of Wickedness
By John Tillman

We don’t always have a choice about working with or living among wicked people, but we can choose how we respond.

Even in our modern world, it can be difficult to confront or leave a wicked spouse or partner. For Abigail, and other women of her time, it was unthinkable. Abigail and her servants lived under the authority of her husband, Nabal, whose name meant “foolish.” (verse 25) He was also called “wicked” by the servant. (A bold statement from a servant about his master!) This word implies “worthlessness” and “destruction” as opposed to value and blessing. The servant’s usage implies that Nabal cannot be reasoned with.

Agreeing with the servant, she does not speak to Nabal. Talking to someone who has given themselves over to wickedness is fruitless. Abigail doesn’t talk—she takes action. She does not waste the pearls of her wisdom on her swine of a husband. Rather than face him, she sets out to greet 400 angry men with swords.

In conflicts between the powerful, the powerless get crushed. Had Abigail done nothing, it is possible she would have survived, and even ended up married to David as a result. But the servants, and perhaps many others, would have died. Not only would David have had blood on his hands, she would as well.

She went out into the night, to meet angry, armed men, taking with her restitution, humility, an apology, and wisdom about what kind of leader David should strive to be. Her speech to David shows she is well connected and knows much of David. She even subtly references his victory over Goliath with a metaphor about a sling. (verse 29)

Nabal is wicked and cannot listen to reason. David, even when set on a destructive course, still listens to those standing in his way. 

There are two godly examples for us to follow in this passage. 

May we remember to be like Abigail, willing to risk our lives to block the way of wickedness, paying the cost of the wrongs done by others and standing in the way of those intent on harm and violence.
May we also be like David, willing to listen to those who stand in our way, warning us that we are on the wrong path. May we be willing to let go of our own anger and vengefulness.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Call to Prayer
My mouth shall speak the praise of the Lord; let all flesh bless his holy Name forever and ever. — Psalm 145.22

– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Summertime by Phyllis Tickle.

Today’s Readings
1 Samuel 25 (Listen – 7:12) 
1 Corinthians 6 (Listen – 3:03)

Read more about What David Longed For
David makes a contrast between the evildoers whose satisfaction is found in this life, and himself.

Read more about Limits of Human Grace
David, when dealing with these offenders, had seemed magnanimous…But on his deathbed, David sounded vindictive.