Beyond Femme Fatales

Links for today’s readings:

Feb 16  Read: Proverbs 7 Listen: (2:21) Read: Psalm 37 Listen: (4:21)

Scripture Focus: Proverbs 7.7-13

7 I saw among the simple, 

I noticed among the young men, 

a youth who had no sense. 

8 He was going down the street near her corner, 

walking along in the direction of her house 

9 at twilight, as the day was fading, 

as the dark of night set in. 

10 Then out came a woman to meet him, 

dressed like a prostitute and with crafty intent. 

11 (She is unruly and defiant, 

her feet never stay at home; 

12 now in the street, now in the squares, 

at every corner she lurks.) 

13 She took hold of him and kissed him 

and with a brazen face she said:

Reflection: Beyond Femme Fatales

By John Tillman

The film noir term femme fatale came from French, meaning “deadly woman.”

Proverbs 7 reads like a classic 1930s film noir scene. Like Humphrey Bogart peering through the blinds of his detective office down on a dirty and dangerous city, the father looks down on his street. 

Imagine Bogart narrating…

The street grows dark. Wise folks hurry home before full dark falls. But a young fool walks towards a dangerous corner. Is he ignorant that the corner is frequented by Miss Temptation? Or does he know? The lady leaps out of the dark and grabs him, kissing him suddenly and seductively. Her smooth, sultry voice sings of food and pleasure. Like a lost puppy, he follows. Might as well be signing his own death certificate.

The father is demonstrating a particular temptation but the lesson is not intended to blame women for initiating sin or cast all women as temptresses. Both genders employ temptation and both fall victim to it. We must look beyond “femme fatales.”

We must also do more than attempt to avoid temptation. If the foolish young man had been home for Shabbat with his family, nothing bad would have happened. But that’s not enough today.

It’s not that we have no dangerous corners to avoid. It’s that dangerous temptations no longer stay on dangerous corners. Temptations leap right into our bedrooms and living rooms through our televisions, apps, and devices.

The recent NFL Championship broadcast set aside ten percent of advertising spots for gambling apps and sites such as FanDuel, DraftKings, and Sportsbook. These apps multiply gambling addiction by algorithmic addiction.

We don’t live in a film noir world where only the dark is dangerous and only the foolish are tempted. “Femme Fatales” of temptation such as apps, algorithms, Ai companies, and the paranoia factories we call political media are everywhere.

Temptation will grab you like a headline, an advertisement, or an algorithm. It will kiss you like a comfortable lie or false promise. What will you do? How will you resist?

The father says to make God’s commands part of your being. (Proverbs 7.1) The apple of your eye, the tips of your fingers, and the beats of your heart must be shaped by scripture. (Proverbs 7.2-3) You must also make Lady Wisdom your sibling. (Proverbs 7.4)

Only through scripture and the help of Jesus, our brother, can we resist temptation. Flee to him when you feel temptation’s clinging grasp.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Refrain for the Morning Lessons

You strengthen me more and more; you enfold me and comfort me. — Psalm 71.21


– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Springtime by Phyllis Tickle.

Listen to: Lady Folly

Wisdom is the guard against the places where seduction can bait a fool.

Read more: Justice Starts Within

Justice starts within. It doesn’t stop there.

Lady Folly

Scripture Focus: Proverbs 7:22-23
All at once he followed her like an ox going to the slaughter, like a deer stepping into a noose till an arrow pierces his liver, like a bird darting into a snare, little knowing it will cost him his life.

Reflection: Lady Folly
By Erin Newton

As Proverbs’ dramatic poem continues, the father gives another example to educate his son in the way of wise living. There is a man walking the streets; he is a fool wandering into a trap laid out by a seductive woman. 

The seductress in Proverbs 7 is often referred to as Lady Folly. The woman is crafty. She is wealthy and intelligent. She has an aim and meticulously sets her trap. 

First, she lures the fool in with excitement. Grabbing him for a kiss, the thrill is her hook. 
Second, she conceals her ruse with religiosity. She has done her duty of worship and now is ready to share a ceremonial meal. Third, she aims for his ego and lavishes him with flattery. Finally, she tempts him with sensual pleasures and reassurance of secrecy. 

The relationship with the woman ends with the death of the foolish man. “All at once he followed her … little knowing it will cost him his life.” (v22-23) 

Although the story utilizes a real-life scenario of prostitution or adultery, which must have been common enough to be understood in this poetic way, the story has no particular judgment on gender. If anything, both genders are at fault in this story. In fact, the antithesis of Lady Folly appears in the next chapter when we meet Lady Wisdom. The book of Proverbs closes with the heralding of the smart, ambitious, hardworking woman. Let the reader understand, this poetic depiction of Folly is not a condemnation of women as the root of all evil. 

The moral of the story goes beyond wise sexual ethics. This is a story of a person who is aimless in life, senseless, easily lured by temptation. The person is drawn to excitement although it is tainted with impropriety. The person doesn’t stop to discern religious charades from true piety. The person is distracted by self-promotion and self-gratification instead of seeing the trap waiting ahead.

We are all in danger of being this fool. Temptations toward pleasure, thrills, and pride lurk around every corner. Perhaps the most sinister deception is the false pretense of loving God while leading others into sin and death.

The goal is more than avoiding seduction. The aim is to develop a heart that sees past these pretenses. The proverb teaches that wisdom is the guard against the places where seduction can bait a fool. 

From John: As we talk about Lady Folly and Lady Wisdom this week, we’ll share this poem dramatizing the two ladies. It’s worth the repetition and meditation.

Music: “Again and One Mo’ Time” Aaron Smith

Divine Hours Prayer: A Reading
Jesus said: “In all truth I tell you, everyone who commits sin is a slave. Now a slave has no permanent standing in the household, but a son belongs to it forever. So if the Son sets you free, you will indeed be free.” — John 8.34-36

Today’s Readings
Proverbs 7 (Listen – 2:21)
Psalm 69 (Listen – 4:04)

Read more about Temptation Has No Gender
In addition, these passages have been often misused to paint all women as temptresses and all men as victims.

Read more about Emulating Christ’s Love
Proverbs chides its readers, “Why commit sexual sin?” There are no benefits. Those who do this, do so because of folly and a lack of wisdom.